New Year’s Eve, 2020. We are planning a meal of
left-over turkey, followed by an hour of TV watching and an early bedtime, the
better to greet the New Year. Such wild excitement, you say, should not be permitted
at our advanced ages! Perhaps you are correct and we should eschew the
television. The series, after all, is purported to contain sex scenes of some
heat. One would not wish to spoil one’s night’s sleep.
As if. A year of lockdowns, masking and grim
statistics is finally over and vaccines are beginning to arrive, with high
hopes for all. No one except the dourest of prognosticators would have
predicted this year and its misery. As a senior with compromised immune system,
I am clinging hard to the idea that the vaccine roll-out will be fast and
efficient so that we can resume the even tenor of our pre-Covid lives, more or less.
For so many, a lost family member or friend who succumbed will forever leave a
sore spot on their hearts and a gap in their lives. For the rest of us, things
have been frightening, frustrating and futile. We had, for instance, a small New
Year’s celebration planned in the form of a roast beef dinner in a restaurant
with good friends. Cancelled, as so much has been.
It is both useless and unfair to condemn the past months entirely. There
have been good happenings.
There has been fun. One of my best memories is the item
that I awoke to find on my birthday. My insanely jokester neighbours had
manufactured a gnome out of cedar branches and, adding a sign saying Happy
Birthday, installed it on the lawn.
I
modified it to add a mask and remove the sign, since the latter had melted in
the rain, and it graced our front yard for quite some time. A fine work of art
indeed. The ‘gnome’ offensive is not a new one. I have found gnomes in trees
and flower beds, and many on-line representations to mark various occasions.
And I do confess to, very occasionally, trying to reciprocate. Mostly, though,
they win. The amount of wiring they had to do to create the Birthday Gnome had
to be seen to be believed.
It is easy to find beauty where we live. In season there are lovely
falls of snow, (I am not sure of the date of this photo, but beautiful it is), gentle
rains, sunshine and flowers, birds at the feeders, deer and the very occasional
bear in the field behind the house. I was fitted with hearing aids this year
and have rediscovered the joys of bird song, frog song and the ability to hear
the sparse traffic as it turns in front of our house, enabling me to keep track
of the neighbours and the school bus.
This year we removed the wood furnace that has warmed
the house since it was built, and had a propane furnace and new, larger, air conditioner
installed. It is a lot less work for JG and it enables us to warm up the house
by changing the thermostat setting before we get up, a nice change from hiking
down to the basement and fiddling with lighting and stoking the furnace. We
also got a new mattress for our bed, not before time, and are now sleeping on a
flat surface without two dips in it. For now, anyway.
Small things add cheer and interest to days that all seem to melt into
one another, far too much the same. An orchid that friends had given us grew a
new stem and produced, all at one time, ten blooms. I gloated over it a lot.
Here is its portrait at the five-bloom stage, with the buds swelling happily.
My cacti did not give me the same satisfaction, although one that was also a
gift from neighbours did pretty well. And my daffodils were splendid. The
weirdly warm week we had early on got them started and the second batch of
spring brought most of them out. I only seem to have a photo of the beginning,
annoyingly enough.
A less beautiful thing that spring brought was an infestation of
caterpillars - as I recall, two types, Forest Tent and Gypsy moth. The oaks were very badly affected and lost
a whole set of leaves. Stubbornly, they grew a new set, much smaller but
sufficient, we hope, to carry them over. JG did a lot of caterpillar squishing
and egg mass removing but only the coming spring will tell us if they are going
to make it.JG assessed the big maples that framed the entrance to
our laneway and decided that enough rot had set in – whether courtesy of the
ice storm that stripped them or just from old age – that they needed to be cut
down. He hired a tree removal company and a crew of young and agile men
arrived, complete with bucket truck and chipper. In only a bit over two hours
they limbed and chipped the trees and removed the trunks. The sound wood will
make fine firewood. No tree around here is ever wasted. Inspired by the way they
were whipping the chainsaws around, I did some research and found that there
are machines called ‘arborists’’ chainsaws, lighter than the ordinary kind. There
was a lightbulb over the head moment, and I go one for JG for Christmas.
He seems to be pleased.
Christmas now has come and gone and a good turkey
dinner was had by all. New Year’s Eve has also come and gone and I am writing
this on New Year’s Day. We had a fine Christmas, those of us who could gather.
But we did miss the absent family members, especially the YD whose job is too
intensely busy to allow her to quarantine for two weeks both ways just to spend
a few days at home. She does seem to be getting the best out of her posting,
though, getting in lots of hiking in amazing territory and just slogging away,
getting the job done.
So, that was Hindsight is 2020. Hoping for a better
2021.