Friday, 16 August 2024

One Month Later

 Well, so much for the not-very-well-laid plans. As of today, which is, almost I was corrected to note, the middle of August, I have not got much farther with the closet purge, the exercise program or anything much else. I am, however, managing to be off the added oxygen for most of the day and that is the rent in the clouds. If I can get off it overnight, I will be able to sleep in a position other than flat on my back with the oxygen tube tucked under my arm and being able to move around will mean, I hope, that I do not get up in small and painstaking (and painful) increments in the morning. Or earlier. Life in the slowest, do not pass go lane.

Part of this hiatus has been my obsessive (according to JG) watching he feed from some of my favourite Olympic sports over two weeks. Gymnastics, swimming, track and field, and, I confess, beach volleyball. I also got hooked on the Canadian women’s rugby team’s amazing showing. Like the beach volleyball, I find I can see the plays and the logic of what is happening. And it is nice to see the women do well. Did you know that these Olympics are the very first where the women and men are equally represented in number? If you did not, you do now. I watched some of it over and over again, especially the swimming, once my sport. But if I never see another ‘Break’ contest, I think I can live. Having painfully learned the parameters of the marks for style in artistic gymnastics, I guess I could, over time, figure out the meritorious moves in break dancing, but only with ear plugs.

I have also been rereading Rosamunde Pilcher’s epic novels, The Shell Seekers, September, Coming Home and Winter Solstice. The first two contain a carryover of characters and are in chronological order. The others stand alone. And stand up very well to criticism.  While her earlier novels are unabashedly romances, the ones I have listed are much more. They record what life is. They are funny and poignant and alive. I reread for pleasure, slowly, savouring the language, the descriptions, noting the tiny details, rather like plunking down in front of a painting and watching the light fall on it. Rewarding. But it does not get the laundry done.

Some laundry is ready. Tomorrow I have to put the YD’s bed back together. She was here off and on for a couple of weeks but, since her house renovation was not proceeding quite to plan, she left her worldly goods in storage and went on a two-week hike in Baffin Island. From which she returns tomorrow, or maybe the day after that, or whenever. I washed up her bedding and a few garments with my wash. She has a good bit of ‘stuff’ in her room here, mostly clothes unsuited to schlepping across the barrens of Baffin Island, and I therefore assume we will see her anon. It is a source of much joy to me that she is now based in Canada.

Auyuittuq Traverse (Black Feather Outfitters)


We are going out for dinner tomorrow night with the ED. Her family is off having fun in Barbados, being, severally, retired and on August break before returning to university.  I will report. The ED, being neither of these things, is working full out but is giving us her Saturday night. We are actually going to a nice restaurant, a new one for all of us. She is also a source of much joy, as well as illicit butter tarts.

The unusual amount of rain that we have had this last while has really brought out the wildflowers. The ditches are solid with either goldenrod or purple loosestrife, depending on the moisture level, the cattails are going to be immense and everything is green and lush. Our lawn, also green if not lush, seems to have goodies that the deer like to chomp. They are actually staying on the lawn and off my rock garden, mirabile dictu. We will see how long that lasts. JG is complaining that he does nothing but cut back grass and chop back the trees that are trying to take over the trails. Unfortunately, though, it is a great year also for grackles and we must have a whole extended village of the wretched birds. Noisy and blocking the little birds from the feeders, they have no redeeming qualities to my mind.

Such as it is. I had planned to write a post about Canadian English, but I am just too lazy tonight. Next time. Maybe. Or do I mean’ perhaps?

16 comments:

  1. Nice to see a blog from you! I so wish we had a little bit of your rain. This has been the driest summer i have ever lived through in myb73 years. It is not good.
    Your family sounds like mine, so adventurous while I mind the gardens and put up food.

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    1. I will do a rain dance with you in mind. A do-not-rain dance for here. The road is washing out. Again.

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  2. I'm glad to hear of your progress re: getting off the oxygen. I know it seems like ages to you, but you know the old saying--"slow and steady wins the race."

    The grackles have invaded us in NEO as well. I had just filled my large bird feeder with premium (no waste, no shells) seed, and suddenly they descended. I must have had 30 of them in my little back yard. It became an obsession to keep flying out the back door to shoo them off. My expensive seed is NOT for them.

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    1. Yeah, we put out premium feed too, usually. JG just switched to cracked corn in the flat feeder with hopes of sending the grackles after choicer fare elsewhere. Anyelsewhere!!
      I am certainly in the turtle category, but, yes, you are right. Just takes patience and, sigh, work.

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  3. I am glad you posted bc I've been thinking about you and wondering if I should drop a note. You are ever the teacher of Shakespeare with your 'anon'. Which is maybe when we'll meet again. 😊

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    1. Oh AC, I know. My family has been known to throw things - and not bouquets. There is always the Balderson cheese store, eh?

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  4. You take it easy!
    I have a lot of trees that need trimming. I'll hae to figure out what to do.

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  5. JG got himself a fine new battery-operated chainsaw, a one-hand-held job. Light and easy to use on small encroaching trees.

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  6. You are nit the only one, Mary, ti fall behind on things, but you have made progress with the less oxygen, so small steps. Thanks for the anniversary wishes and your 62 years is wonderful.

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    1. Oxygen deficit is what I am going to blame. Or a foldover of the wrong finger. 52 years. Oops.

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  7. Came back to re-read your post! I do hope you are still slowly getting off the oxygen. That has to be annoying at night.

    And thank you for reminding me of Rosamund Pilcher. I read her long ago, and need to read her books again. Well, maybe not the romances, lol!

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    1. No, the romances are to a formula and that gets boring. But she may have needed the money. Night with oxy is still annoying. I tried without the canula and was in deficit a lot. Ah well.

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  8. Canadian English? That sounds like fun. It also sounds like you've been going through some difficult, busy times. I'm sorry you've had to deal with using the oxygen tube and hope everything improves.

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  9. I'm glad you're able to do without the oxygen in the daytime. I wish you could have a better sleep position. That would be extremely difficult for me since I sleep on my side. Please take good care of yourself.

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  10. It was loads of fun for us to watch the Olympics with my daughter, son and families in July. Our daughter even insisted on eating quiche and macarons to be in the French mood.

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    1. Sorry I didn't see these sooner. I have been off the computer. I have also been off the oxy a lot, but I am not sure that my brain is happy with that. I tried overnight as I am, as you are, a side sleeper, but I was in oxy deficit a lot. Ah well, onward and upward. I watched some of the paraOlympics. The wheelchair athletes are amazing. Scary to watch.

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