We are almost at the end of the decent weather for the
months to come. While it is still mild most of the time, we have had one
snowfall. It lasted less than the full morning that it fell, but there have
been what my family always called ‘hard frosts’ the last few days. And, a major
marker in the year, deer hunting started here today. I have heard a few rifle
shots, but when I passed the hunt camp next door to us this afternoon, there
was no deer carcass hanging, so either that camp has not been successful or it
was another hunter that I heard. I can still go out into the screen room with
some comfort and so I do hear the guns.
Most of the leaves are down, as well. The oaks are hanging on, but even the tamaracks are pretty denuded. The palette in the bush has gone to greys and browns with a few notes of rust and, of course, the deep greens of the evergreens. JG has been sweeping and raking to get the worst of the leaves off the ‘lawn’ (there is so much twitch grass that it is a bit presumptuous to call it that). And yesterday was a grey day with drizzles of rain that did not amount to much. What it did do is wet down the leaves and now JG is raking by hand. I used to be able to help, horrible job as it is, but now all I can do is watch.
But inside things are improving. JG has hired a finish
carpenter to … finish … the bits of the house that he never got around to doing.
Window surrounds and baseboards, mostly, upstairs. And doors, glorious doors on
my office and to close off the storage cupboard in the wall opposite the
brick chimney wall. I will add photos! There was some question as to whether I
would get the office door since there is a bookcase just inside, but the door swings
and clears. And the door to the bedroom is framed in as are the closet doors in
our bedroom. They are going to get a lick of paint, too, in time.
Our presently fully occupied carpenter is a character.
As he measures and installs, he talks to himself, muttering about measurements
and fit. And there are sighs heaved. And deep breathing. I am trying to stay
out of his way but I am on the same floor of the house, and the ongoing chat,
at full volume, is hilarious. Once he gets this floor done, he is going to be
sent down to the television room, an area which is really, really unfinished at
present, needing mudding on the walls, a ceiling and a partition and door into
the furnace and workroom part of the basement. I think we will have his company
for some time to come.
It is past time to have these things done. It will
make a great difference in the ability to sell this house at a reasonable price
and in reasonable time. I don’t want to think about this ending. The house is
the home we built ourselves. Our forever home. Planned just for our needs. Our
sweat and a few tears and smears of blood from punctures have gone into it. But
it is a long way from anything else. And we are getting old and older. I am not
capable of cleaning the inside myself any more, so it is done for me, but JG is
still doing everything outside but the tree cutting himself and finding it more
difficult and exhausting each year that passes. I must believe and act in the
belief that our days here are numbered and few remain.
Change of topic after a pause while I wrote cheques. While looking for something else, I just fished four pens and three snap lighters out of
my purse’s pockets. I swear the things migrate. Next week I will find them all on
the dining room table or in the pockets of my fall coat. This spring I got out
my raincoat and found half of a dog biscuit in the pocket. I think the
last time I walked the YD’s dog and fed her biscuits was 2018, or thereabouts.
Okay, time to stop maundering on and post this.
I don't know how you have managed., We have a little place on a little lot, and it is almost too much for us.
ReplyDeleteAC, we are not managing well. Things that used to be tidy and groomed are a mess of raspberry canes and weeds. JG is wiped after moving part of the leaves and upset that many remain. But he wants to do it himself for as long as possible and I can really understand that.
DeleteIt definitely can be a hard decision to sell and move from a home into which you have put so much work and love. We have done the same twice. Of course, we look back with fond memories of these homes, but living in an apt for the past several years has been easier in terms of no yard work, no repairs and the freedom of more free time to do what we enjoy. Also, the apartment is a single level, another big plus for us as we’re also getting older, isn’t everyone?
ReplyDeleteMy coat pockets are similar to yours. 🙂
ReplyDeleteOur house is the same. Some work needed now and it’s too big for two people in their 70s. That decision is on the horizon for us too.
Better to jump than be pushed, eh? My problem is that this is the house that we built to be empty nesters in and it still works for us very well. Except the work. yeah.
DeleteHooray for projects being finished. That is a delight.
ReplyDeleteI'm forever finding little dog biscuits in various pockets. I carry them on my walks for neighbourhood dogs. And Zydrunas the granddog, of course. I sometimes leave them on the gate at his house.
It's difficult to think about leaving your family home, but best to do it on your own terms. I think about the lines from Shakespeare's Julius Caesar:
"Our enemies have beat us to the pit.
It is more worthy to leap in ourselves
Than tarry til they push us."
Laughing. I just wrote 'better to jump than be pushed' and then read your comment with the accurate quote. I should have been better on the wording; I taught that play enough. Grade 10 required, as I recall. It was fairly popular, especially when i took the class down to the school stage, provided a lot of bedsheets for togas and rulers for knives and let them act it out. Oddly enough, my principal was not too enthused.
DeleteYour carpenter sounds like a one- man show! Nice work, though.
ReplyDeleteWe too wonder how long we can manage to stay here. Our place is not easy to care for, very hilly. It is one of those things that constantly niggles at the back of my mind, and meanwhile I am still planting fruit trees. Go figure.
Quote running in my head, something about civilized people are the ones who plant trees under which they will never sit. Must look it up. And, yes, I want to plant. JG mutters at me. The thing is, if the next generations decide to keep the land, the trees will work for them.
DeleteWow! From what I can see, your home is immaculate and beautiful. I worry about where we will go too someday. I hate to think about where to begin to downsize. We have too much accumulation... sigh...
ReplyDeleteJG has buildings full of 'stuff'. I have cupboards full of 'stuff'. And drawers and bookcases. In my more evil moments, I figure it will be a problem for my daughters, not me. After moving my parents out of the family home and taking my lumps for what got sold and/or gifted, I figure I have done my thing. If the grandkid wants to sell my grandmother's china, she might get some good money for it. Or not. So, I might get a headstone. Or not. Meanwhile, I enjoy the china.
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