It has been a cold, wet, icy day, dark,
damp, dismal. And productive. I have been doing my Christmas shopping
list online, and getting assured delivery dates with a minimum of
hassle. Sometimes I love the internet. Poor JG has been in the city
all day - a meeting, a medical appointment and (shudder) shopping in
stores. However, so poor has the weather been that he probably did
not have as much of a hassle as I imagine. One wonderful year we
slithered over to the nearest shopping centre in the midst of an icy
blizzard and did a whole evening's worth of spending in solitary
splendour. I did feel sorry for the staffs, who had to be on duty
until closing time, weather or no.
Another year the YD came home just
short of Christmas with a guest from sub-Saharan Africa. On Christmas
Eve (this is when we lived in a city) in -18ÂșC weather, she took the
guest to the shopping centre to buy long underwear and other
equipment for a Lanark Christmas. They could not find a parking spot
in the whole mass of parking garages that surround the place. In fact
they could have probably walked it faster from where we lived then,
except for the fast-frozen visitor. Who loved, loved! the snow, never
having seen much before, and leapt out of bed every morning to shovel
and marvel. Me, I shovel and whine.
Other than smugness about the online
coups, I do not feel very Christmassy this year. I horribilifed the
YD by saying I was not really enthusiastic about putting up a tree.
This afternoon I am off to the Hall to help pull together a Christmas
feast for 25, which we will serve tomorrow. A two day marathon. Our
Hall committee is very small at present, but we have to keep events
going or we will have no money for heating, power and necessary small
repairs. And the Hall is our contribution to the community. So, two
days of cooking, two fat birds, three sweet desserts and dish pan
hands in perpetuity. I should not be complaining - I enjoy working at
the Hall, and it keeps me in touch with lots of friends. But it is
hard, this year, with Marion gone.
It is a gorgeous winter day, today.
Blue sky, sparkling snow, crisp breeze, sun pouring in to all the
windows. It's the first bright day in a while. The little birds are
swarming the feeders, and I have to get the suet up pronto. The YD's
animals have gone back to the city and I can now clean the footprints
off the hardwood floors - my cleaner came yesterday and together we
de-haired the place. Cat and dog hair accumulates in the most
unexpected places. We have a wood stove in the living room that you
can burn with the door open, with a separate screen to put across to
keep the sparks in. I keep the screen stored behind the stove. It was
absolutely stuck full of hair yesterday. And the YD's dog, she avers,
is one that does not shed. In fact, Shammy is not bad, compared to
the dogs we had while the kids were growing up.
This nonsense has taken me two days to
put together and I now have to quit. I have to assemble ingredients
for aspic to take to the Hall, make several lists, do a bunch of
mail, drop stuff off to a neighbour and be at the Hall by 1:00 pm. It
is now 11:00 am. And I thought that when I quit the major board I was
a member of, I would have lots more time.
Bah, humbug.
Merry Christmas. Or maybe I should say Mary Stinton Christmas. At any rate I hope your holiday is happy. It's good to hear from you.
ReplyDeleteThat's--Merry Stinkin'. Christmas. Stupid auto correct.
ReplyDeleteLOL
DeleteWe sometimes get too busy to really enjoy the season. When this stint is done, I suggest that you put on some music, read Christmasy kids books, and drink whatever it is that you drink. We stopped putting up a big Christmas tree when we moved into this place in favour of a small pre-lit pop-up and it conveys the spirit just fine. All the best for the rest of the season, Mary.
ReplyDeleteMary, I hope your luncheon at the hall was a success and you gained some holiday cheer from the fellowship.
ReplyDeleteDon't fret about the decorations. I refuse to expend energy on anything that's not meaningful to me, despite the fact that I have my mother tsking at me and showing up every other day with more CRAP that I'll have to deal with later. (She doesn't decorate her house.)
My house is filthy and I don't think I'll have time to clean until Sunday. I was in a car accident and the effort will probably really aggravate my knee, but cleanliness is actually something that I can't overlook, especially with plans for baking. (Though what they don't know won't hurt them. Even Julia Child said so.)
Oh, Mary. Don't fret about it, then. Just do whatever you want, and if anyone bitches about it, tell them to feel free to come and put up whatever Christmas decorations they are willing to come and take down later.
ReplyDeleteI know you miss your dearest friend, and I'm so sorry.
Take some time for yourself, have a glass of wine in a nice hot bath, and read a good book. How's the kittykat?