Friday, 2 May 2025

Sweet Violets


 The yard of the house I lived in as a girl was long and narrow, with a paved walkway down the centre that led to the trash bins, the back fence and the back gate into the alley. The alley itself was dirt and worked well for hopscotch. On the right side of the yard, just behind the back of the house, stood a single car garage. Behind that, again, was a huge old willow tree. My mother’s wash lines ran from the garage to the willow and from the willow to a post at the back of the yard. Behind the garage not much grew as it was shady, but there were, in season, clumps of small, hardy violets. A beautiful deep purple, they were very scented. My mother loved to hang clothes on the line above them as she said things came in from the line ‘smelling wonderful’.                                                                                                                                                                                                      

My mother was a determined gardener. On a trellis beside the house there was a clematis, one she had transplanted every time she and my father moved, and, as well, there was a bed of peonies and several rose vines of various lengths of thorns, the one with really vicious thorns beside the garage door. At the back of the property, to screen the alley, there was a line of flowering bushes – bridal wreath is the one I recall. I envied the children of the house across the alley as there were several of them to split what seemed to me to be endless amounts of yard work, including but not limited to policing the willow’s dead branches, cutting back the evil roses, sweeping, raking and, when I was older, cutting the grass. I don’t recall paying much heed to those violets.

Sometime in there the willow had to be cut down. It may have been damaged in a storm; I am not sure. My mother commissioned a post for her clothes lines and the new lines ran from the garage to the post. I don’t think my mother planted anything more except a new baby tree. But, when my parents decided to sell the big house in Windsor and move to our city, there was a firm directive to me to get out a trowel and some trugs and dig up enough violets that my mother could be sure some would survive to reach their new home. She also considered the clematis, but since their grandparents were moving two climate zones colder, my daughters persuaded their grandma to let them give her a new, hardy clematis that would thrive in Ottawa.

My parents’ new home was a bungalow on a huge lot, the original suburb having been on septic systems. It was painted white with a black front door and my mother immediately realized that it needed, indeed cried for, red geraniums and white in a border across the front. When she discovered a rhubarb patch, she was delighted, and she relished a back patio with the clothes line in easy reach. When she received a picnic table for a Mother’s Day gift, her pleasure was complete. The clematis was duly installed and lawn maintenance people hired. (Although if they did not arrive to my mother’s taste in grass length, I cut. And raked. And cut.) The violets were also duly transplanted, some at my parents’ place and some in a corner of my aunt’s backyard, the bit not taken up by the swimming pool.

Forward a number of years, and my aunt was being overrun by violets, she said. She dug the majority of them and firmly gave them to me. I brought them out here and planted a row of them in the low bush beside the cut lawn at the side of the house. And sort of forgot about them, except in the week or two that they flower and the scent is wafted across the grass.

 

The photos accompanying this essay illustrate that these violets are stubborn, take-charge flowers. Plant one and ignore it and you have a multitude. This week, as spring peeps up, they are front and centre in our lawn. And the scent is still wonderful.

19 comments:

  1. One day soon mine will be blooming here and there throughout the yard! Nice recall of your growing up!

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  2. Quite a bit of this blog is a record or memoir, really, for my daughters and grandkid. This one for sure. I could almost find myself back in the yard where I grew up as I wrote it. Thanks for the compliment, and may your violets do fantastically well.

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  3. If you violets are out early they must be different than what I call violets here. Maybe I need to verify what they are when they flower. Yours do see very low to the ground.

    Whatever the case, I like the story from past to present and from one house to another house.

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    1. There is a local purple flower that will come along in a few weeks; I think it would be classified as a viola. These are an import from the British Isles, I am pretty sure.
      I am trying to get these stories done as I remember them.

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  4. Would you like to add some creeping thyme to that?

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    1. Laughing. Got thyme, in quantity. As well as other sneaky plants invading JG's grass. I should do a post on them.

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  5. No matter where you live, nature brings little specks of beauty everywhere!

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    1. It does. And the little ones that have scent are the best.

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  6. Such lovely memories associated with flowers…except for the reminders of all the work as a child in the garden. Scents can bring up strong memories!

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  7. My mother did a lot more of it than I did. I only ended up as a day labourer if one of them caught me. I love to remember this kind of thing. My parents had that house until my daughters were almost adult, so it is really for them that I write it out.

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  8. Your memories would flood you anew here in my neighbourhood; every yard is decorated with them. Some people (Rick) fret about them, but I love seeing them every single spring. How can you not? White violets are also here and there, along with some patches of spring beauties under mature trees.

    This is a lovely memory you've recounted here. I can see it right along with you.

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  9. I enjoyed your comment! You are droll and witty! It couldn't be Fred, as he's been here for several years. He's getting near the end, though. They don't live that long.

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    1. They are fun, if annoying, little beasts. My latest infestation is chipmunks in my lily bed - small enough that I think they are this year's batch and not one bit afraid of me. Ah well.

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  10. The violets are blooming in the grass here too. My mum used to pick the flower heads and soak them in eggwhites and sugar, and dry them, and they were used as cake decoration.... sugared violets.

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  11. I think I might have a try at doing that ... but I can hear my mother laughing.

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  12. Oh my... I remember those in Illinois. We had a LOT of them trying to invade our grassy areas. Actually, my grandfather gave my mom the name Violet because he wanted her to always be modest and humble.

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    1. As in 'shy Violet'? Funny. I hope she was a force for good.

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  13. Mary, as purple is my favorite color, I would not mind having a yard overrun with violets...if I only had a yard again 😏

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    1. I hear you. I cherish every hour of every day we are able to stay here.

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